The Blame Game

How many of us are “blamers”. How many of us,when something goes wrong. the first thing we want to know is “Whose fault is it”. When something goes wrong our instinctive reaction is to attribute blame, it’s a natural reflex.The-Blame-Game We all have a  self-serving bias, we take credit when things go well and cast guilt elsewhere when they don’t. Blaming has become a fine art, making others responsible for difficult things that happen to us.  We tend to need and want to accuse  someone or something because it gives us some semblance of control

Runners in the immediate aftermath of a poor performance  tend to  blame everything and everyone, other themselves. I have a list of excuses to blame for a  poor performance during a run, from the weather conditions to a lack of sleep the night before, from choosing  the wrong footwear to  putting my socks on the wrong feet. I ate too much, I didn’t eat enough. I had no one to run with, the group was too big….. my list is endless. The problem with this scenario is, with the allocation of blame comes the loss of learning. Where there is blame, open minds close, analysis tends to end and the need to understand the failures and problems diminishes. When people operate in an atmosphere of blame, they naturally cover up their errors and hide their real concerns. When energy goes into finger pointing, accusing, denying responsibility, no one ever knows the true state of affairs. It’s impossible to make good decisions or change behaviour  with poor information, and therefore impossible to progress and improve.

The current spread coronavirus  is a contentious and emotive issue and it may be starting to cultivate a culture of blame as we try to prevent or slow a potential second wave. The nursing homes were considered the cesspits of the initial outbreak.  The recent outbreaks in the meat plants and  in the direct provision centres that has led to the re-lockdown of Kildare has highlighted that we may not only be dealing with a highly infectious virus but a contagious culture of blame. Blaming is often more than merely a process of attributing fault,  its often a process of shaming. It makes us feel powerful and insulates us from examinaing our own role in the process. Blame is simply the discharging of pain and discomfort and it has an inverse relationship with accountability. Accountability is a vulnerable process. Admitting that that my running times have fallen off a cliff because I’ve put on a few pounds, have become too fond of the port and cheese  and haven’t been training well is hard, but it’s the start of turning blame into a process of accountability. Ultimately running is a sport that relies pretty much solely on accountability to training schedules, running partners and to an honesty to one’s self.

People who tend to often blame, seldom have the tenacity or grit to hold people or themselves liable. If we are to be held accountable we need to ask did I have a role in this situation? Did I take some actions that seemed right at the time, but that had unintended consequences? And anyway does it really matter whose fault it was.

 

 

 

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I qualified with an Honours degree in Physiotherapy from Trinity College Dublin in 2004. Since graduating I have worked in St. James Hospital Dublin and have worked in all the areas of speciality within the hospital including cardiorespiratory, orthopaedics, rheumatology, care of the elderly, neurology, burns and plastic surgery among others . I have also completed a post graduate certificate in acupuncture in UCD 2009. The Physiotherapy Department in SJH has strong links with Trinity College Dublin (TCD) and I have supervised undergraduate and postgraduate physiotherapy students on practice placements and also delivered lectures on the undergraduate academic programme in TCD. I have a keen interest in all sports and currently plays with Cill Dara RFC 1st team squad, and Milltown GAA. I have previously worked as Physiotherapist to Co. Carlow Senior GAA Team, Milltown GAA, Leinster Junior Rugby Team and Cill Dara RFC. I am an experienced runner and competed in the Dublin City Marathon in 2002. I continue to participate in running events and multisport disciplines such as Gaelforce West, Gaelforce North and the Motivate Challenge. I have a particular interest in strength and conditioning. I utilise this knowledge of resistance training in the treatment of his clients. I am committed to continuous learning and development in order to ensure the optimal level of care is offered to my clients, and with this in mind I am currently undertaking a certification in Strength and Conditioning (CSCS) with the NSCA.

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